An update on future blog updates

I will be updating this blog much less frequently for the next year ,as I will be preparing for my Chinese customary wedding and dinner banquet, which is scheduled for December 2010.

For long time readers, you should already know that I’ve been legally married more than two years ago, but my wife and I have held back our customary wedding because we weren’t financially ready to bear the high costs of a banquet back then. I wouldn’t say that I’m now completely financially comfortable, but at least it’s not so bad.

I’ll be updating a new blog I’ve set up specially for my Chinese customary wedding more frequently than this blog, so if you want to keep in touch with what’s happening in my life, head on over to the new blog, which primarily chronicles the steps towards holding a Chinese customary wedding, as well as the heartaches and happy moments that occur in between.

Sexism in newspapers

I first came across this story about 22 people caught in Malaysia for indulging in a sex orgy on the Straits Times’ website.

The headline of the Straits Times version of the story is “3 women caught at sex orgy”. After I read the story, I found out that the three women were Malaysian, and they were caught for prostituting themselves to 19 Bangladeshi men in a sex orgy. I got annoyed after learning the whole story because I couldn’t understand why the focus was on the women. The headline was plainly sexist.

Later, I realised the story was attributed to The Star, a Malaysian newspaper. So, I went to search for the original story that appeared on The Star, and the headline, “Three women caught at sex orgy with 19 foreigners”, was a little better than the Straits Times, although it was still sexist because the headline explicitly mentioned the word ‘women’ but not ‘men’.

I don’t understand why the focus of the story had to be on the women. The Bangladeshi men are equally guilty of committing the offence. Why can’t the headline be gender neutral, such as “22 people caught for sex orgy”?. The fact of the matter is that there were 22 people involved in the act, so why did the papers decide to highlight the role of the women in the offence?

In fact, the newspapers should highlight the alleged pimp and mastermind of the orgy, a 56 year-old man. Sheesh. I can’t speak for the Malaysian papers, but I think the Straits Times editors should have had more sense to change the headline for re-publication.

Our One-Party Democracy

The title of this entry was copied word for word from the headline of Thomas Friedman’s op-ed column on the New York Times a few days back, and the reason for borrowing his headline word for word is because it aptly describes the situation here in Singapore too, although there are definitely some differences.

In his column, Friedman acknowledged that a one-party autocracy by an enlightened group of leaders can have enormous benefits for citizens, and he used China as a shining example of the advantages of having a one-party autocracy, contrasting it with the currently dysfunctional (at least in my opinion) two-party democracy in America where the smaller party is constantly obstructing progress for the sake of obstruction while the bigger party is trying to create progress for the country, hence the term one-party democracy.

Actually, the one party democracy Friedman describes is not exactly unworkable. The problem in the United States now is that the Democratic Party is not dominant enough to completely ignore the Republicans. In Singapore, we have a one-party democracy that provides the same benefits as a one-party autocracy as stated by Friedman. Singapore does not have a problem with policy obstructionism simply because the Other is simply too weak to provide any decent challenge.

Does this then mean that a one-party democracy, Singapore style, is the ideal form of governance? Actually, I think so, provided that voters can cause the political pendulum to swing the other way when the need arises, for example, like what has happened in Japan recently. The only dangers in the Singapore-styled one party democracy are acts behind the shadows that are against the values of democracy.

Don’t be mistaken, though. There are great benefits of Singapore’s one-party democracy, but I still believe that the two dominant party democracy of the United States is still slightly better. However, after further contemplation, it really doesn’t matter whether it’s one-party, two-party, multi-party democracy, or even a monarchy, for so long as those in power use their positions to create a better life for everyone in society. At the end of the day, perhaps it’s pointless to argue over which style of governance is best, for everything is moot if those in power possess narrow, selfish interests.

The short supply of empathy in Singapore

While I’ve been ranting about the Straits Times pretty often of late, being the most decent English newspaper on this island, I have no choice but to read it for local news, and this piece of news about a man jailed for pitching and living in illegal tent was rather disturbing to me.

I do not know the complete facts of the case, but assuming the newspaper report is accurate, this man pitched a canvas tent at East Coast Park in 2007 without a valid license, and he lived there for a month before being discovered and apprehended by park rangers who presumably handed him over to the police, and then the attorney-general’s chambers decided to proceed with the case, resulting in the fine which became a 4 day jail term because of inability to pay the fine.

The reason for this man living in a tent is apparently homelessness and unemployment. And in that month he lived outdoors, he claimed he seldom ate, subsisting on food that friends would bring from time to time.

I believe these information should have been given to the police, who would have in turn passed it on to the AGC. While I understand that this man has indeed broken a law and legal prosecution is completely justified, surely some empathy could have been shown in deciding whether to charge this person. The justice system worked flawlessly in this case, but what this person needs is not a fine nor jailing; what he needs is social assistance to deal with the source of his transgression of the law. The justice system is not the antidote to this problem.

This is not the way to build a more inclusive and gracious society. And yes, a more inclusive and gracious society needs a greater supply of empathy, and of course, the participation of the justice system too.

It’s a sad story to read.

Tolerance versus understanding

This year’s National Day Rally speech is interesting because of the amount of time devoted to the topic of racial and religious pluralism in Singapore. There is no doubt that many people are still concerned about the state of the economy, and the prime minister would do well to dwell on that issue at length, but instead, a choice was made to devote a considerable amount of time on the issues of race and religion, issues which have not been publicly dealt with by the head of our government for a good number of years.

I am most certainly pleased that the prime minister has chosen to discuss the topic candidly and respectfully. Racial and religious harmony can never be taken for granted, and it is necessary to bring this topic onto the public agenda from time to time, lest we forget the painful lessons of our history. However, the content was pretty much predictable, toeing established government lines on race and religion, but well, what else can we expect from this occasional flogging of a dead horse?

The prime minister has outlined the various government efforts to maintain race and religious harmony in Singapore in terms of the punitive legislative measures, behind the scenes efforts to engage religious leaders and mediation efforts to amicably resolve conflicts, nipping potential flash points in the bud. However, I think what is more important is to cultivate a sense of understanding in Singaporeans with regards to race and religion, and not just mere tolerance.

Tolerance in my opinion, especially in the context of race and religion, simply means suppressing one’s objections or discomfort. A person can be racially tolerant, but it does not mean that person is not a racist. I am willing to bet to my last dollar that there are racists and religious extremists in Singapore who do not express their feelings outwardly because they don’t want to be thrown into jail under Singapore’s strict racial and religious harmony laws. These people can be said to be tolerant, but is this a satisfactory outcome? What will happen if the strong mandate of the state vanishes?

What we need is to engender understanding rather than tolerance. Easier said than done. It’s really about getting the individual to step out of their comfort zones. A person who always surrounds himself or herself with people of the same race or the same religion is very much less likely to be understanding of other races and religion. The association with people of similar traits is likely to result in the narrowing of one’s thought and thus resulting in diminished racial and religious understanding ability.

Forcing people to mix together, especially adults, isn’t a very good idea. It’s easier to do so with children, though. I remember I went to a government primary school, and many of my current friends from other races were made from back then. We played together, laughed together and were punished by our teachers together. At least for me, I didn’t care about race or religion; all I knew was that it was fun to be with everyone, regardless of race and religion.

I think the best starting point for racial and religious understanding is during childhood, and the government has to try and make sure that children experience racial and religious plurality at a young age, no matter which schools they are in. I generally don’t support government propaganda and ‘brainwashing’, but I am willing to make an exception for the sake of developing of religious and racial understanding.

Consultation on human rights in ASEAN

There will be a public consultation workshop on human rights in ASEAN this Saturday at the Novotel Hotel, and it looks like a pretty interesting event for anyone interested in human rights issues in this region.

Details of the workshop can be found here (PDF document).

Do give the details PDF file a read. Pretty interesting stuff. And if you would like to go, the sign up link is here.

The first version which I read

Just when I thought I was done ranting about ST

I ranted about Straits Times a couple of days ago over the quality of their content, and today I just had to see something to make me rant again. This time, it’s not even about quality of content; it’s about their atrocious quality of writing and editing. Bad content, bad writing and editing. Can our flagship English newspaper sink any lower?

Here’s the problematic lead paragraph (original article here):

WHILE most offenders appeal in the hope of lowering their sentences, 18-year-old Danny Koh Jia Gui asked an appeal judge to be jailed and caned instead of having to undergo reformative training.

The confusing part is in bold. The sentence construction conveys the meaning that Koh had asked for the jailing and caning of the judge instead of asking for the judge to jail and cane Koh. The copy editor was obviously SLEEPING on the job. If I were the copy editor, I would have rewritten the lead paragraph as follows:

While most offenders appeal in the hope of lowering their sentences, 18-year-old Danny Koh Jia Gui asked an appeal judge to impose a jail sentence and caning instead of reformative training.

The rewritten paragraph has the same number of words with much greater clarity in meaning.

Sigh.

Update:

I just realised the Straits Time put up a rewritten story, and the original that I read was posted up yesterday, but a new version put up today. It seems like they have quality control problems, but as always, they try to secretly change the story and hope nobody notices instead of admitting they screwed up.

The first version I read:

The second version

The second version

The second version

A convenient excuse for racial stereotyping

I read this article on the Straits Times blog after seeing a friend share it on Facebook, and boy I was totally floored and flabbergasted by its content.

In short, the author, Luke T Johnson (he’s apparently assistant to the editor), attempted to make the case that racial stereotyping is not always bad. In his words, racial stereotyping can “prove useful, even life-saving”. In order to make such distasteful content palatable, he placed a few paragraphs of disclaimers upfront before narrating in detail a single incident which he was robbed by a Hispanic and two African-Americans, concluding that he would have avoided being robbed if he had done some racial stereotyping. The icing on the cake? Trying to link his incident with the recent Gates-Crowley incident.

Total bullshit. It’s bad enough that the Straits Times is often derided as State’s Times, but with this latest piece, I can’t help but wonder if the ST is continuing on its downward devolution into BS Times.

Racial stereotyping for the purpose of fear-mongering and perpetuating irrational hate among people can never be justified. One can find murderers, rapists, robbers, burglars, thieves, con men and other kinds of criminals in any racial group. Therefore, what good reason is there to engage in racial stereotyping? Johnson claims that the danger in harbouring racial stereotypes is the possible degeneration of such thinking into “twisted ideologies” but he conveniently drops the discussion of whether racial stereotyping is logical to begin with so as to be able to make his bullshit claim about racial stereotyping being potentially useful.

You know, crime is potentially useful too. Burglary is potentially useful because it will make people double bolt their doors, triple lock their windows and install burglar alarms. Shoplifting is potentially useful too. It will make shop owners install security cameras, anti-theft alarm systems and hire security guards, boosting the economy and the labour market. Robbery is also extremely useful to deter people from showing off their expensive Rolexes and Tiffanies. Allowing robbery would be much more effective than throwing money at PR or advertising agencies to come up with a campaign.

I rest my case.

From iron fist to velvet gloves to boxing gloves

Ever since changes to Singapore’s political system was announced a few months back, I’ve been thinking about why the Lee Hsien Loong government has decided to do all these when it is obvious there’s little tangible gain to the PAP from taking a small, liberal step towards reforming our political system. Reactions that followed the announcements of increasing the number of NCMPs, reducing the size of GRCs, increasing the number of single seat constituencies and permanently entrenching the NMP scheme as part of the Singapore political space were drawn along familiar battle lines, with the more belligerent cyberspace facing off against the cheerleading mainstream media.

I believe that most arguments for and against these changes have been exhausted, so I’m not going to comment about that. What piqued my curiosity regarding these announcements was the purpose behind them, and I came up with two possible explanations. It’s either the PAP has come to realise that being too politically dominant is is potentially threatening to their own political survival or Lee Hsien Loong is starting to move his chess pieces to secure his legacy in future annals. The more I think about it, the more I am inclined to believe the latter reason is more plausible.

Singapore’s first post independence Prime Minister, Lee Kuan Yew, is most remembered for his iron fisted style of governance. In his drive to move Singapore from Third World to First World, Lee adopted a ‘my way or the highway approach’, and while this approach has had admirers, with the more recent ones being the Chinese Communist Party cadres, it has left a bitter taste in the mouths of many Singaporeans.

After Lee Kuan Yew came Goh Chok Tong, a leader with a softer personality but with the previous Prime Minister still sitting in Parliament and Cabinet as Senior Minister, and wielding extremely strong influence to boot, there was little Goh could do, so he built his legacy as a Prime Minister by masking the entrenched iron fisted style of governance with a velvet glove.

It seems that Lee Hsien Loong has decided against being a carbon copy of Goh and wants to carve out his own unique legacy. My guess is that the announced political changes are part of his plan to cushion the entrenched iron fisted style of governance, changing not just the look but lowering the pain of being punched by an iron fist. I believe there’re probably more changes afoot as Lee Hsien Loong continues to think about his place in future history books.

The real question I would like to see answered in the coming years is whether Lee Hsien Loong is willing to stop at donning boxing gloves, or would he be willing to replace the iron first with a gentle fist? Well, maybe he should go the whole nine yards. If everything ends up being upended by the end of Lee Hsien Loong’s tenure, his successor is going to have a difficult time.

The meaning of death

I’m supposed to be working hard on my Masters thesis, but for the past week, I’ve been spending some time pondering the meaning of death because my wife’s co-supervisor at MIT, Professor David Schauer, suddenly passed away.

I’ve not had the chance to know him very well, but the few times I’ve met him and talked to him, it’s clear as day to me that he’s a wonderful person. He’s soft-spoken, patient, kind and caring towards people. He was due to spend a year in Singapore in a few months, and I was looking forward to knowing him better and showing him around Singapore.

His departure came as a shock to me, although I’m definitely not as badly affected as my wife and the other members of his lab. However, it did make me ponder the meaning of death, a topic in the deepest recesses of my mind in recent times. And, I think I’ve decided what death means to me.

Death is not the mourning of demise, but a celebration of having lived life.

When it’s my turn to leave, I hope people who still remember me will smile, and for those who have to shed tears, let it be tears of joy.