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The ineffectiveness of abstinence education
A study in the United States has shown that abstinence has no impact on the sexual behaviour of teenagers. (See article titled “Abstinence Education Does Not Impact Sexual Behavior”)
The results of this study are important because of its longitudinal nature. It tracked the behaviour of youths who had undergone the abstinence programmes for up to six years. It is perhaps ironical to the proponents of abstinence that despite their efforts, youths who had undergone abstinence programmes are no less likely to abstain from sex compared to youths who had not undergone such programmes.
On the flip side, those who argue that teaching abstinence will result in youths engaging in more unprotected sex shouldn’t rejoice. The same study found that youths who had undergone the abstinence programmes were no more likely than other youths to engage in unprotected sex.
After reviewing the methodology, I’m pretty sure that the study was pretty tight in terms of research design, and the results are indeed valid. Of course, whether the same results are achieved in a similar study in Singapore would be a question mark because of differences in culture. However, given Singapore’s heavy consumption of American media and cultural products, maybe the difference might not be so great.
In anycase, assuming that abstinence is ineffective (the worst case scenario), what should we then offer in terms of sexual education? I’ll support teaching youths the importance of having protected sex. At the end of the day, the two biggest problems with teenage sex are unwanted pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases, all which can be mitigated greatly through having protected sex.
There’s also the moral dimension involved as well, i.e. is it appropriate to have sex outside of marriage (the assumption here is that most youths are not married)? To me, I don’t think the answer should be told to teenagers when conducting sexual education. I think they should discover the answers for themselves. As a liberal, I would actually ask teenagers when they think it’s appropriate to have sex and why? Then, I’ll try and play Devil’s advocate to challenge their beliefs and get them to think a little further. At the end of it all, they’ll be in a better position to make their own decision, and whatever decision they make, I think we should just respect it, since it’s not an ignorant choice anymore. (Yes, it’s idealistic I know, but that’s just me)
Oh, and another interesting result from the study is that peer support is a significant predictor of sexual activity. Those from the pro-abstinence camps might want to take this into consideration. Abstinence programmes might not be effective, but following up with continued peer support might just tilt the scales back.
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about 5 years ago
Teaching abstinence is not going to be of much use even in the Singaporean context because once there was a stigma and perhaps this stigma has lost much in terms of influence. Sex is naturalised – i.e., it becomes ‘the natural thing to do’ in other cultures which do so happen to be strongly taken up by our youths and all.
Rather, i would say that teaching protected sex and the unwanted consequences would be preferred. As for the ethical side, yes, i do think that ethical convictions should be discovered by the youth for themselves so that they’ll actually believe in them. The thought that the one moral model is the correct one is still valid but emphasising it as the one is probably not going to achieve the effects which are wished for.
At the same time, teaching such things could meet with much disapproval from parents and politicians alike because teachers and education is also viewed as giving youths the correct moral viewpoint. It’s a difficult balance i suppose, but it’s a conflict which globalisation brings.
Preaching abstinence may not be totally ineffective – perhaps apart from teaching the practical aspects of having sex early, it should be made clear that the best way is not to have sex til a certain maturity is reached. But if they want to go ahead and do it anyway…then what can actually be done? Send thousands of people to jail each year?
about 5 years ago
quote unquote from Andrew, the rebellious son of Bree in “Desperate Housewives”
” We know what is right and what is wrong
but sometimes, when you try to take us to one side,
the other side seems a lot more interesting and tempting”
about 5 years ago
actually, shouldn’t we also be asking “why do certain groups want to fight for the legitimacy to control teenage sexuality?”
about 5 years ago
In a society overrun by MTV, reality programmes, Eminem & obscene salaries, we expect teenagers to have the morality of the past.
Abstinence education can’t compete with Hollywood…it can’t compete with the Internet…it can’t even compete with the Straits Time Life section.
If there is any hope of abstinence, it disappeared last week, …some people can’t even abstain from greed.
about 5 years ago
Ultra-Conservative religious groups have been known to preach abstinence because their religion frowns on sex outside marriage. Moreover, some groups distain the use of contraceptives and condoms because they think that supporting them will lead to people being sexual immoral ( refer to websites below)
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/europe/3843797.stm
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/africa/4417521.stm
Unless these groups start to change their official stance and pass the message to the ground, the preachers will never condone any contraceptives and condoms
about 5 years ago
Guojun,
We need to get rid of the entire “Asian values” nonsense first. I am quite sure that’s one of the biggest stumbling blocks in Singapore.
about 5 years ago
yanjie,
I’m afraid that’s so true for teenagers. I remember those days. The more the elders try to tell me not to do something, the more I wonder about why I shouldn’t be doing it.
about 5 years ago
sam,
Wah, that’s going to taking the debate to a whole new level. I’m not sure which groups are you talking about though. It’ll be good if you can bring out a couple of examples for discussion.
about 5 years ago
Drizzt,
It took the Roman Catholic Church a few hundred years before they would admit that Gallileo was right about the Sun being the centre of the universe, or at least, our solar system
about 5 years ago
That’s not possible now Aaron…’Asian values’ have such a significant political importance in Singapore. The PAP says ‘Asian values’ all the time. Asian Asian Asian values! YAAAAAAAAY! haha.
about 5 years ago
hi, erm maybe groups that have a moral, religious, political, nation-building, economic agenda.
for example, fundamental christian group such as focus on the family. women’s rights group such as aware. a certain political party that sets to win the hearts of the “conservative heartlander” population-cum-voting-majority-cum-moral-majority. many many groups.
about 5 years ago
sam, im really tempted to think it as something to do with power.
about 5 years ago
perhaps it’s just me, but if you were an idealist, as you have stated, then wouldn’t it be better to simply preach abstinence?
i guess the whole debate about these two simply boils down to two camps: the idealists and the realists.
and while i do think that being realistic’s a good thing, we should still be idealistic. it’s perhaps what keeps us sane.
=)
about 5 years ago
about 5 years ago
Actually they stopped the Asian Values nonsense after the Asian Values-inspired Asian Financial Crisis hit home.
about 5 years ago
well, you could still endorse condoms but constantly remind that it’s not 100% sure won’t suay suay get AIDS.
then again, youth in general, have little cognition of Death.
about 5 years ago
Asian values ? ..like finding another way to say sorry without losing face and where “yes” means “I take note” whilst displaying body language not exactly nodding in agreement.
about 5 months ago
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